Caring for Vivian: A Family’s Rett Syndrome Journey
Like many toddlers, Vivian kept her parents guessing. She’d learn a new skill, then stop doing it for a few weeks. Or she’d miss a few developmental milestones, only to meet them later.
At her 15-month well-child appointment, Vivian still wasn’t walking, so her parents, Emily and Jeff, brought it up to her pediatrician. Together, they made a plan to start physical therapy.
Then one day, when Vivian was around 16 months old, Jeff commented to Emily that he hadn’t heard her say “dada” in a while. At the time, they weren’t worried. After all, they’d just had their second child—a boy, Noah—and as a family medicine doctor herself, Emily knew that kids can sometimes regress when a new sibling arrives.
While Vivian initially loved saying “brother, brother” after Noah was born, she stopped after a few months. Still, Emily and Jeff figured they were probably to blame. They’d recently introduced the word “no” to her, and because Noah’s name started with “no,” they thought Vivian might be confused.
But then Vivian lost the word “mama,” Emily said, and she stopped being able to pinch small objects between her thumb and index finger—what’s known as the pincer grasp. That’s when Emily and Jeff realized something more must be going on.
Mom Instinct Leads Family to Cincinnati Children’s
At 18 months, Vivian was diagnosed with autism. But Emily and Jeff still suspected something else was at play, especially when Vivian began waking up from naps with seizure-like activity.
“As a doctor, I tell parents there’s a mom instinct,” Emily said. “Trust your gut. And if you feel like something needs to be pursued, pursue it.”
Emily followed her “mom instinct” over the next year and a half. After countless doctors’ visits and tests, they finally had an answer: Vivian had Rett syndrome, a neurological disorder caused by genetic mutations that is frequently misdiagnosed as autism, cerebral palsy or a non-specific developmental delay.
Vivian’s pediatric neurologist in Fort Wayne, Indiana referred Emily and Jeff to the Vinaya Rett Syndrome and Related Spectrum Disorders Clinic at Cincinnati Children’s.



